vixennnn:

I think one of the worst feelings you can ever have in a relationship is when it feels like you’re back to being just friends. And not the nice, before you met kind of friends, but the kind where you know you’re going to drift apart. You don’t know how long it’s going to take to get to that point but you know, deep down, it’s coming. And it’s not like you chose for it to happen, it’s one of those instances that it just does.

But what’s worse than that? Knowing that no matter how much you want to hold on, how much you love and care about your partner, the inevitable will occur.

And it hurts to the point where you just don’t know what to do anymore and you end up being miserable about it, making things x times worse. And then one day, you just let it all go and let your partner go; and you’re back to the vicious cycle.

If you know that you’ll be okay, then by all means, save the relationship. But, if you feel like its just going to get worse, end it. Before it gets even more painful, before anyone else gets hurt.